A page from The Unthinkable: Who Survives When Disaster Strikes - and Why by Amanda Ripley

I guess it’s not exactly surprising, but it seems to explain a lot of things I’m witnessing in my later adulthood. I’ve always felt deeply impressed by selfless heroes, but I never really pondered the profile of heroism.

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    Fucking hell. I can’t escape being reminded of this shitstain everywhere, even if I filter political posts.

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      A parasite keeps reminding you it’s there until it (or you) is destroyed.

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        programming.dev##article.comment-node:has(div.comment-content:has(p:has-text(/Musk/i)))

        Put that into your adblocker custom filters (assuming you’re using a browser)

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        Yeah, I heard ignoring the shit world around you is a really good way to effect change

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          I tried to effect change for 8 years. I gave up when Americans decided that they wanted the shit world. My mental health can’t handle it, I literally am losing years of my life with every moment I spend reading about how the people in this country are hell bent on turning it into the worst possible existence.

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            We were in this position before, a period of even greater division, even to the point of violence.

            Our mistake was not teaching the fascist confederates the price of evil.

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          It’s about as effective as talking about it on social media all day, every day. The people making real change are out in the real world doing concrete things - not just posting about it online. Shaming people for not wanting to be miserable 24/7 because of the constant firehose of bad news isn’t just unproductive - it’s counterproductive.

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      Cover your eyes, plug your ears, and ignore the cries of those suffering around you.

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        As opposed to passing drivel on the web even where it’s completely unrelated, because that solves all problems.

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        Choosing to filter out political content from your social media feed isn’t necessarily about denial or apathy. For many people, it’s a conscious decision to preserve their mental clarity and avoid being constantly pulled into emotionally charged, tribal, or manipulative discourse. Being well-informed doesn’t require immersing yourself in an endless stream of outrage, nor does stepping back from that mean you’re turning a blind eye to anything.

        There’s a difference between ignoring reality and choosing how and when to engage with it. Most of what passes for political content online isn’t a sober presentation of facts or ideas - it’s performance, manufactured outrage, and algorithm-driven noise. If someone wants to stay sane and focus on things they can actually influence in their immediate life, I don’t see that as sticking their head in the sand. I see it as setting healhy boundaries in an environment that’s often designed to provoke rather than inform.

        People aren’t morally obligated to be constantly exposed to negativity just to prove they care. In fact, thoughtful action tends to come from those who can step back from the noise and think clearly, not from those who are perpetually consumed by it.