True. And it sucks.

The way I see it is that as long as Lemmy doesnt become as amazingly terrible as reddit or faceboook or twitter there will be such communities created eventually…may take a decade or two for people to birth them and moderate them but they are almost inevitable to come into existence if the demand for such communities gets big enough.

Honestly I dontbhave the time in my average day to moderate the community so who would moderate it? I dont have the time T-T . Others probably do. They can start it if they want and moderate it if they want .

there’s so many things that go into laundry care that mostt people need to know about but will never choose to learn about

Like iif your detergent uses certain enzymes then you cant use that detergent to clean wool clothing…but the thing is that like 95 % or more of all detergents have enzymes in them…so…

Also if you live in apartment building what rights do you have to clean out your washing machines’ filters? What ability do you have to clean those filters?

Also which detergents are asstastically bad scams and should never be considered as detergents? Which detergents are actually good? Which companies have bribed those in the media to make it look.like their laundry based products work bbetter than theey actually do? Which detergents shoupd you consider for different msterials? How mucj will they cost over time? SHould you just make asnd use your own homemade detergents?

also Do homemade eco friendly fabric softeners exist and should you even use fabric softeners at all?

How good are copper and lamolin coated clothing at clesning themselves as both of these substances have been found to have anti microbial properties?

How do other regions that dont have easy access to washing machines and dryers do their laundry? Can we take any advice from theiir methods?

How eco friendly are certain types oof clothingsa and even certain types of washing methods? It has been. shown that some of the biggest polluters of microplastics into our world today are microscopic specks from cleaning aritficial fabrics like polyester

Ar ethere any scam washing machines or dryers in the msrket today? How can we tell that they are garbage at cleaning and drying clothing?

When you hhang dry clothing what types of methods could you use to ensure that you dont promote the growth of certain hydrophobic microbes?

The topics go on and on…

Lemmy has no community dedicated to talking about any of these topics…

Lemmy doesnt have a laundry dedicated community anywhere that Ive looked… reddit does however…

So I guess the Lemmings let mama and dada do their laundry for them still 😅

its clearly a combination of shitty decisions frrom the executives at reddit, the mods, the massive invasionn of bot users and restricting API access.

🫩 That feeling when you get banned from a community cause you typed in “Im a Black man” and the auto mod banned you for the world “Black”… 🫩

the problem with uBlock there is thst sometimes on reddit they post like ‘Advertisement Posts’ …Like actual posts that are not about that niche community in anyway but are nothing more than an advertisement for a comoany and uBlack obviously cant block that.

Ive seen it a few times in the past but its been like 4 years since Ive been on reddit so I dont know if theyve stopped doing that.

no laundry community on Llemmy either…

🫩 There isnt even an intactivism community here bruh!!! 🫩

🫪Heck there isnt even LAUNDRY community on Lemmy!?! How yall existed for this long with no laundry community yall?!?🫪

Thats like nice and all and thanks for saying the truth but my question ks what can we actually do?

(And you better not say ‘just write to your representatives’ 🫩 please)

…liberal zionist loool. All liberals are the same.

(also 32 hours is STILL too long. Fuck off)

Ill simoly say two things that Im allowed to say here :

1. I have a gun

2. Look at my profile picture

The nazis that run this website will not allow me to elaborate any further than this so …do with that what you will 😏

…and your proof is? …

Here’s mine : https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2026/2/15/thousands-of-western-nationals-fought-israels-war-on-gaza-what-to-know

…ok?..and what are we gonna do about it?

As a 100% non-lion I can attest that I also enjoy stalking and eating zebras and layinng im the savannah’s cooling mud after heated, sexy times with my lionness

but think about it:

Knowinng the history of humanity, do you think that it is more likely that this allegation is true or untrue ? 😏

It is up to humanity ro choose when we will make a society where such a thing is impossible to ever occur, let alone bbe alleged to have had occurred.

“When it is our turn , there will be no excuses for our terror.”

…so basically Palestine today and for the past 80 years!

thats similarr to what I said

I just dont get it. Did I miisinterpret their reply?

I said that a certain number of species of Influenza and COVID went extinct BECAUSE of lockdowns.

Their reply was : ‘Lockdowns dont work’ …

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Why would you want to be in a relationship with someone who you can’t understand signals from? It shows your communication isn’t on the same level yet.Real confidence is not overthinking things. Paying attention is a social skill like any other. I think learning it is the best relationship skill you can give yourself.

… so you didnt read anything I wrote? OK lol. ( “Hey everyone! Remember to send mixed signals to EVERYONE youre ever involved with in life that way nobody you kniw if you want to be their friend, their lover , non-contact, or their enemy. Works every time 6 7% of the time.” 🤭)

You can’t love someone off the bat, it’s something that builds. It’s normal to not be sure at first.

… THATS THE POINT OF DATING. HELLO?! Its a headspinningly-fast or unusually-slow process where you come to understand if you like, love, or dislike the person. Doesnt matter f you date that person for only 75 days or for over 75 years. The process of dating can take however long it has to take for all parties involved. It is up to all parties invovled in that relationship to communicate , wait and see how they see the other person , to consensually hasten things up with everyone involved and make the dating process occur to exclusive consumation much quicker or to blow the relationahip up for now cause you and the other people involved just are too incompatible at this time. Indeed dating is compex but you shouldnt be leaving someone in an ‘No-Mans-Land’ where they have no idea of what you feel towards them or others. Tell people exactly what you feel towards them in quiet , private , safe spaces and leave NOTHING up for question .

If someone keeps on and keeps on hitting on you and you even feel a tiny itsy bitsy amount of interest in them? How are you an adult and you dont have the courage to reciprocare and use your words and tell this person " YES! No more games! I am also somewhat interested in you and we should begin the process of getting to know each other! Because maybe eventually Ill like you way more than you like me. " ? (Well obviously I mean dont say it like am AI robot like that. But please be direct with them) If you have absolutely no interest in the person hitting on you? You should have the courage to just say so to them in a safe space and/or go no-contact if you feel in danger. If you go no-contact without saying something? Most people will eventually get the idea and just leave you alone. YOure an adult. You shouldnt be playing mind games with peoples hearts . Im pretty sure that most people will agree eith me when I say humans who receive mixed signals for decades and decades and keep on misinterpeting those muxed signals for decades and decades eventually shut down completely and no longer respond to or send ANY signals ever. Thats another reaon why we have so many middle aged lonely people who eventually die of deaths of despair - their despair is so great cause they dont know what humanity feels about them when they themselves are a peaceful, quiet human too. Do you want to be the reason a person shuts down forever? Cause this is how you get some lonely person to shut down forever.

Also another thing to add is that there are some people who are on the spectrum who wil never understand what in the fuck a signal is and there is nothing wrong with that . BUT some of these same people do also get horny too , just like most other non-asexual peoples, and they still want to date too. There is nothing wrong with them wanting to date. But for people like this if they give you a direct question of: “Do you want to date me?” any "half-approval-half-declination’ response from you will leave the person in No-Mans-Land lol.